Saturday, 17 October 2009

Well, it just seems like saturday is really clique day after all, because this week dont have guitar practice at ACCESS as it is a public holiday. Despite this, well, we still meet together for arcade with Amanda, Ting Jun, Shawn and Philip.

Amanda joined us later after her driving lesson. When she reached she called me then I went down to Level 1 meet her, bring her to the arcade. We played a few games of ice hockey.

Then the group game, pits me and Amada against Philip Tj and Shawn. It was the battle against the odds, and so it proved..Out of 3 gme set, both teams won a game each while we drew the other. Then we lost the game by just 1 point. It was indeed a fun game, and it increased the bond between us, thats for sure....

Play racing gme with Amanda, TJ, and Shawn. Amanda always win me, even though I got overturn her car, she still come back to win. The time spent and fun we had together is more important than the games being played...

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It just seem that clique is the best to have, yes I believe so. It is very rare that even though we are not in the same school and same class, we have grown closer than ever in terms of friendship. What makes this clique great is that even if we go back home from any particular clique outing, it is a standard procedure that our handphones would ring thereafter with sms-es from each other, telling that we are safely back at home. That act of doing it just shows that as friends, we show care and concern for each other, which is hard to find...Not only just that, but also we guide each other, 1 example of which is through the guidance of guitar lessons. We have always exchanged ideas and assisted each other in coping with the various skills being taught.

Moreover, it is commonplace that we always tend to help each other in any way possible. when outings, maybe I would help Amanda or Yuan Ping, supporting them push their wheelchairs when we encounter up-slopes, coz up-slopes are more tiring to move up, I have to admit...Even if I were not to help, I'm sure others will do it too, that i am very sure.

When with clique, it just seems that time is going twice as fast as it is normally moving. Because we just simply enjoy ourselves just being together, doing simply anything, practicing guitar, chatting on msn, now famously known as the "clique chat". Even though we are not from the same school as classmates, but we still at times share with each other how we have been doing with our education etc.

Yes, I wont deny that being what we are are, there is a certain boundaries, a certain barrier in what we want to do. Yes, we are what we are, and we will continue to live with that. But, seeing it in another perspective, being what we are, it certainly doesnt stop us to bond together like we are now. Yes, when we plan outings last time, what we really want to do sometimes, if someone from clique couldnt join us to do that particular activity, maybe because there is a barrier, we still would have thought of other solutions. Yes, that barrier may make us limited in doing stuffs, but would I rather carry on with that activity and see that someone from the intended group is missing from the activity, or would I rather do a activity that though is not as fun, but all people could be able to join and play together? If we had the former, would it be very unfair to the person that is unable to join, just because of what he/she is? If we had chose the latter, would it be a better solution such that everyone enjoy themselves, and also spend time together, getting everybody involved in the mix. Though the activity may not be as fun as the one which we really wanted, I think that it is just as fun and pleasing to even spend quality time with the clique of friends. So this ensures that no one is left out just because of that particular barrier, and that is a hallmark of true friendship and togetherness that we have enjoyed and so look forward thus far.